He goes to the point to say that withholding yourself from your husband is “selfish”. I’m sorry but that’s the EXPECTATION in marriage, faithfulness. He told a story about a woman rewarding her husband for his faithfulness with extra sex. even calling Christians who have re devoted their sexuality’s to Christ as “recycled virgins”. The author assumes all women have low sex drives and all men “only think about sex, hunting, and sports”.there is zero grace for sexual brokenness that could have resulted from past abuse, addictions, etc. It places the sole responsibility of the man's “faithfulness” on the women’s ability to “please” her husband. Yes, there are a few nuggets of wisdom but overall the author is demeaning to women and even to the point of saying “honey I have news for you it’s not going to happen” when explaining that women should not expect to orgasm every sexual encounter. Ladies, find a man who loves and takes care of you and serves God. It was unrealistic, unhelpful, and the kind of mentality one gets when this is one’s favorite sex book. Back to my friend: when she was 40 and I was 30, she suggested I pray that God would give me a husband that was a virgin. If we supposedly have better relationships with God, who created sex to be wonderful and good, then what is wrong with us? I would say these kinds of Christian resources. That is the worst mindset going into sex and marriage! My helpful book has shown data that Christian women are more likely to have pain during sex.

If you listen to authors like him, you will have to deal with jealousy of your S.O’s past and shame about yours. aren’t, you would think there is no hope for you. 2 stars because it helped her and her husband: two “clueless virgins.” This author writes to that audience. Another, more helpful book I have, has labeled this book as “harmful” and I believe it! I quit reading halfway through.

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